It is always intriguing and fascinating to learn about different cultures and religions and the varying ways in which they do things. A traditional Muslim wedding is a special thing and if you are lucky enough to witness one then you are certainly in for a treat. In general Muslim weddings differ depending on the culture of the couple; nevertheless this article will discuss typical Asian weddings.
To Muslims marriage is known as ‘zawaj’, and the zawaj of two individuals is certainly celebrated in style if you follow an Islamic religion. They are events which people will remember for a lifetime, with lavish and luxury being the main sentiments of the day, and in fact celebrations can often go on longer than this. On the day of Muslim zawaj celebrations all friends and family, no matter how close or distant they may be, gather together in celebration. People don extravagant and luxuriant outfits accompanied with a mass of stunning silver or glistening gold jewellery, thus as you can imagine the bride is certainly an eye catching picture to say the least.
In relation to the zawaj of two Muslim individuals, they have to declare their marriage publicly as a secret marriage is strictly forbidden. Thus in order to make sure this is the case people usually arrange a massive feast, also known as a walimah. This walimah is arranged with the couple’s mere intention of declaring to everyone that they are married. This is one of the most important things in regards to a Muslim zawaj.
You may be surprised to learn that under Muslim tradition it is typically the woman who proposes to the man. However, she does not do this herself; there is usually a male intermediary involved, usually someone from her family. Once the groom declares he will marry his soon to be bride he must give her a gift, also known as a Mahar. The Mahar is usually something gold or monetary.
The engagement period is also another intriguing aspect in relation to the zawaj of two Muslims. Whilst the couple are engaged they may not be alone together, the female is only allowed to be present with her future husband if her father or one of her male siblings are there as well. In addition to this, the period of engagement can only last up to three months and if the couple has not gotten married by the end of this three month period they will then have to renew their contract of engagement.
I think it is fair to say that a Muslim marriage is certainly an exciting and intriguing aspect. It is fascinating to see how differently various religions deal with a similar concept.
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