Things she love to hear on a first date part one

People has for so many time and number of occasions that what are do and don't of first date. what things women love to hear on a first date, to answer all of these questions here is a list of  things women love to hear on a first date. Success on a first date is mainly down to the words that come out of your mouth. Body language is important and physical chemistry really matters, but neither of those things will get you far if you're irritating or boring. You don't need a Stephen Fry-sized arsenal of witty anecdotes - good dating-talk is more about making a connection and being an attentive listener. Read on to find out what sort of first-date chatter will get you a second date

1. "No worries, take your time. I'll be here whenever you can get here."  If your date calls to say she's running late, be a gent about it. Don't make her feel more stressed than she is already (you don't want her to be stressed when she arrives, believe me). She's only late because she's spent all afternoon trying to make herself look good for you, anyway. Reassure her that you're happy waiting, and make sure that she sees you reading something cool when she arrives. (Say, a novel by Henry James, rather than Top Gear magazine.) When she arrives, don't make any mention of her lateness. Instead, move immediately to #2.

2. "Wow. You look lovely."  It's the hint of surprise that makes this compliment work. Deliver it as soon as she says hello, so that it sounds sincere and unplanned (would we ever suggest that you plan such a thing?). Your date will turn immediately from a bag of nerves into a delighted, confident flirt. 

3. "What would you like to drink? They've got some mad-sounding cocktails here"  You'd have to be very foolish to expect her to go halves on drinks or dinner on a first date. If you do, she'll assume that you don't fancy her. So dig into your pocket and treat her. If she really likes you, she'll want to pay next time. Cocktails are fun and flirty drinks, not least because everyone knows that they get you drunk quicker than anything else. By suggesting a cocktail, you're essentially saying: "You're gorgeous, let's get trashed together on girly pink booze. They're six quid a pop but you're worth it."

4. "Have to confess, I was a bit nervous about this evening."  This confession works wonders in the context of a confident, easy-flowing conversation. If you're obviously nervous, drawing attention to it will just make you both feel awkward, but when a self-assured man admits that he had the first-date jitters it's very seductive. First, it suggests to his date that he's keen to impress her – which she'll find deliciously flattering. What's more, it taps into every woman's desire to know what men are thinking and feeling. A man who's not afraid to say that he's nervous is likely to be in touch with his emotions, and it may even be the sign of a man who's willing to discuss issues in a relationship. Women are wise creatures, and they know the value of emotional honesty. 

5. "You have a lovely voice. I could listen to you all night."  It's erring on the schmaltzy, but this is a very effective compliment. The compliments that women really love to hear are the quirky ones that aren't solely focused on their physical appearance, and this is a great example. It's also an invitation for her to keep on talking, which will delight any woman who's scared that all men thinks she talks too much.

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